JAILBAIT OR SENIOR CITIZEN?????............HOW LOW WILL YOU GO???

Her Talk

I have different views on this topic.  I was married to someone that was 20 years older than me.  I didn't know we were so far apart in age until we were married.  He had lied to me about his age.  We could not relate on any issues as he was more like my parents and lived in a different generational time.  We didn't see eye to eye.  He was worried about his vitamin intake and how much fiber he was getting.  I was more concerned with when I was going to have an orgasm.  If I am ever in another serious relationship,  it would be with someone within 5 years of my age. I would however entertain the idea of dating a younger man for a bit just to be more sexually compatible. I mean come on what girl doesn't want to spend a weekend with a guy who has the same sexual libido? 

His Talk

Age difference, don't you know what you are getting into? When you're 65 and you get up and go has got up and went, then what?  She's 45 and ready to go dancing and your having a can of ensure and looking for your best pair of bass shoes then what?  She's 45 and built like a brick house and her tutti is throbbing and you're 65 and your prostate is bigger than your pecker and you can barely feel it tingle, then what? 
You better pray that chemistry is there, both relationship chemistry and a bucket of viagra chemistry.Your interest, hobbies, likes and dislikes and your overall outlook on life are going to be the things that come back to choke out this relationship.  For me, I would like the sun go down together rather than watch her drive into the sunset in the car that I paid for by sitting in the nursing home that she paid for.

HER TALK, HIS TALK: WHEN DO YOU WALK AWAY FROM A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP???...

HER TALK, HIS TALK: WHEN DO YOU WALK AWAY FROM A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP???...: Her Talk I might walk away from a toxic relationship if: I might walk away if ....................He spends more time with everyone bu...

WHEN DO YOU WALK AWAY FROM A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP??????????

Her Talk


I might walk away from a toxic relationship if:


I might walk away if ....................He spends more time with everyone but me.

I might walk away if.....................He's always complaining about lack of sex without trying to turn me on.

I might walk away if ....................He is always on the phone and computer talking to other people.

I might walk away if ....................He forgets my birthday, anniversary or any major holidays.

I might walk away if ....................He never initiates date night.

I might walk away if.....................He would prefer to ALWAYS be with the boys.
                                                   I don't care if your spending time with the guys, just allow
                                                   enough time for us to be together.

I might walk away if ....................He doesn't allow me to have a girls weekend occasionally.
                                                   If I can't go to the beach for a weekend, I am not interested.

I might walk away if.....................He is always talking bad about me behind my back.
                                                    Save the drama for your mama.


I might walk away if ....................He always gets satisfied but leaves me lacking. Come on, we girls
                                                    need ours too.

I might walk away if ....................He thinks he is the best looking one in the relationship.

I might walk away if ....................He cannot admit to his friends that he is crazy about me.

I might walk away if.....................He Cheats!!!!

I  might walk away if....................He lies to me.

I might walk away if ....................He is all drama and no substance.







His Talk


Well that depends on a whole slew of things. I am usually in tune with what's going on around me and I'm gonna notice the subtle changes in her behavior. If your partner has a whole list of excuses not to do something with you, stays on the phone or computer when it's normally time spent with each other or the lack of sex becomes epidemic, there maybe a problem. Me, I am not one to drag things out.  If she is no longer burning for me, I'm gonna wanna talk about it. If you come home from a tractor pull and you see your buddies El Camino parked in front of your trailer and  you catch him having lunch between her legs, this might be a problem.  For a man that's a little slow, surely this might be a sign to move on. For myself I'm gonna walk when I see there is a clear lack of commitment to my relationship.   When It's time to leave just put the wheels back on your house and relocate to the nearest most affordable trailer park.

How many sexual partners are acceptable????

Her Talk:

I don't even know how to answer this one.  I guess I do not want to know however, I do not want to be with someone that has been with everybody.  I do not want to walk down the street and see a girl on every corner that has had sex with my man.  I would freak out if it was in the hundreds because for me, it's been significantly less.

His Talk:

I guess what you don't know can hurt you cause if she has the crabs and you don't know, they are definitely going to hurt you.  Pouring ammonia on em won't kill em either. They will just get up and relocate which will only cause even more discomfort and you will be heard screaming three states away. So, I don't know how many are acceptable,  I do know I don't wanna know.

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Define Chemistry??? That's an easy one!!!!!!!!!

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Define Chemistry??? That's an easy one!!!!!!!!!: Her Talk: Chemistry to me is passion. If you can't keep your eyes of your guy, and he feels the same way, that is chemistry. If your ki...

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Define Chemistry??? That's an easy one!!!!!!!!!

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Define Chemistry??? That's an easy one!!!!!!!!!: Her Talk: Chemistry to me is passion. If you can't keep your eyes of your guy, and he feels the same way, that is chemistry. If your ki...

Define Chemistry??? That's an easy one!!!!!!!!!

Her Talk:


Chemistry to me is passion.  If you can't keep your eyes of your guy, and he feels the same way, that is chemistry.  If your kissing make you feel gooey on the inside,  that is chemistry. You just know when you have it.  You want to jump your guys bones at every opportunity when you experience it.  Chemistry is so important in a relationship, I believe it is in the top three things needed for a successful partnership.
Without chemistry, you have no chance of a loving and sexual relationship.


His Talk:

I could only speculate what another man's idea of chemistry is.  I'm sure it is different for everyone. A man with no spine would probably like an overbearing brutal character that he has to follow through Walmart while shopping. I like a peaceful co-existence and the ability to be myself, without the fear of being beheaded every time I fart or masturbate while watching Monster Bucks. Chemistry is generated by mutual admiration for each other as well as an acceptance of each other's idiosyncrasies and unappealing personal habits. Chemistry is a blending of the elements, colors, styles and systems of two different people with a common interest which is each other.

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Did you really just call me that?????? What happe...

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Did you really just call me that?????? What happe...: Her Talk So couples fight, it's the nature of the beast. The question is, how do we carry on and how to treat each other? I personally th...

Did you really just call me that?????? What happened to Clean Fighting!!!!!!

Her Talk

So couples fight, it's the nature of the beast.  The question is, how do we carry on and how to treat each other? I personally think we need to stop calling each other names and stop saying nasty things. We are suppose to love each other right????  Why do we feel the need to get down and dirty?   I've always tried to live with the motto "keep your fights clean and your sex dirty".  I am going to try harder to be a clean fighter.  I will not tolerate violence nor the throwing of things.  I draw the line at that.  So I think we should work really hard to preserve the relationship.



His Talk

Clean Fighting:

Sometimes I am clean, sometimes, I ain't.  Most of the time it seems like I'm dirty. I never know when I am gonna fight.  If I am clean, I usually end up dirty but not as dirty as the man or woman's whose butt I just kicked.  Hah, I'm just kidding.  I have never whipped a woman but I sure wanted to a couple of times. Even in war when your trying to kill the bad guys, there are rules of engagement.  Surely this approach needs to be active when fighting with your partner.  Some of the things said and done are like nails, you can pull them out but the leave a hole, just like your words.  Hopefully the rules of engagement policy will lead to a fair fight with an applicable ending.  As far as dirty sex,  I guess it's okay as long as you leave the farm animals alone.

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Are you really bringing those toys to bed with us?...

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Are you really bringing those toys to bed with us?...: Her Talk So your getting all hot and steamy with your spouse and he brings in some very sexy toys to play with in bed. Do you agree or di...

Are you really bringing those toys to bed with us????? Really????

Her Talk

So your getting all hot and steamy with your spouse and he brings in some very sexy toys to play with in bed.  Do you agree or disagree?  I personally believe we girls need our rabbits however, do we allow our guys to experience this with us.  I mean after all, there is nothing better than the real thing, right???  I believe certain things can add some spice however,  I like the hot passion of each others bodies creating an amazing energy for the two of you to enjoy together. I like the real thing much more than the stand in.  We girls all know we use our rabbits to pleasure ourselves, but when I am with my guy,  I want to feel the intimacy of being together.  Let's face it, the rabbit gives you pleasure but no intimacy.  I believe you can have much more excitement with each other and your natural abilities than bringing in the toys.  I say we girls save the toys for when we are alone.

His Talk

Damn, what's next?   I mean I am for doing something a little different and breaking the routine, but damn, I've seen some stuff on Televison once and it scared me half to death. I was constipated for almost a week just watching some of these things being poked in their rear ends. I mean just poking a one snow pea in my bottom would require anistasia.  I am quite sure a string of chinese love beads would be met with considerable disagreement followed by my hitting the hyper-space button and an immediate retreat into the next county. I mean if it takes a power tool or a light weight McCulloch chain saw for you to get your cookie, I might not be the man for you.

HER TALK, HIS TALK: DO I HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING???? I WORK TOO YOU KNO...

HER TALK, HIS TALK: DO I HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING???? I WORK TOO YOU KNO...: HER TALK I work hard, I play hard and I bring home as much bacon if not more than my guy, so why does he think he can come home, sit down...

DO I HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING???? I WORK TOO YOU KNOW!!!!!!!!

HER TALK

I work hard, I play hard and I bring home as much bacon if not more than my guy, so why does he think he can come home, sit down and be catered too?   I am a person too.  I need help and I expect it.  It makes much more sense for us to work together to get everything done at our home so we have time to spend together at the end of the evening.  Trust and believe  I am just as tired as you are and want to unwind as well.  So why put all the work on me when we get home?  I bring home the bacon too you know!!!!!!!!!
Let's be a partnership not a dictatorship.


HIS TALK

It really doesn't matter who's on top, who makes the most money or whose job is the toughest. Unless one partner is a stay at home mom/dad, once you enter the home, the score is even.  Coexsisting in a home requires the efforts of all parties involved. Helping your partner with chores at home shows a willingness to share the duties, strengthens your bonds and sets a good example of any children that live there with you.  There are so many positives of sharing the work load at home, it's hard to believe there is any other way. Put forth some effort and help out with the task.  Remember he or she will be a lot more willing to involve in hanky panky if you help lighten their work load.

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Are Italian men better lovers???????????

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Are Italian men better lovers???????????: HER TALK I personally think Italian men are probably better lovers. I mean I haven't had much experience with them, but I do have a grea...

Are Italian men better lovers???????????

HER TALK


I personally think Italian men are probably better lovers.  I mean I haven't had much experience with them, but I do have a great lover named Ivan.  He is so passionate, attentive and knows how to give me the very best orgasms.  I have never had this intensity with an American man.  He focuses on what I want and need.  He listens to me, Caresse's me and makes passionate love to me.  The only down fall is he lives in Milan which is way to far away to be in a serious relationship.  Ivan the Italian Lover keeps me wanting more.  Often you can walk away from a man because he isn't very good in bed.  This is not the case with my guy.  I can't stop wanting more.  So why are Italian men so much more passionate than American men?  Could it be the way they are raised?  If you ever go to Italy, you see how passionate the older women are to their men and how they are affectionate to their sons.  Could this be the reason?   It is so refreshing to have someone care about making sure your needs are met.  I prefer this over a guy who "gets his" & I'm left out. 


HIS TALK

Well, I am a firm believer in making sure I get mine and she gets hers.  As far as Italian men being better lovers,  I've heard it before and I'm sure I'll hear it again.  I guess they maybe more attentive to women.  We American men work hard, help with the kids and try to be the best around father and partner we know how to be.  I like sex just like everyone else.  However, I just don't want to feel all this pressure to live up to some hobknob Italian lover that never misses a beat between the sheets. I want my partner to have her pleasures but I don't want to always be compared to someone else.  I don't care what Country their from.  Why do you want to pit us against each other anyway?

JEALOUSLY.....A SNAKE BITE TO THE RELATIONSHIP??????

Her Talk,

I try really hard not to be jealous even though the green eyed  monster sneaks out occasionally.  I feel pretty secure with myself and can often walk away from being angry about those kind of situations.  There is nothing worse than your significant other spying on you and following you around because they are gripped with intense trust issues.  I believe adult relationships should try to focus on building a firm foundation that nips the green eyed monster in the bud.  I want to trust in my partner and not have to worry at all about his being with someone else. I think you should both nuture the relationship so you each feel secure, loved and appreciated.  If your partner is honest with you and never lies, you should not have issues trusting that person.  Jealously and trust go hand in hand.  Without trust, you get nothing but pure jealously.  I would rather focus my attention on taking care of my man rather than worrying about other women.   Look how much intimacy you could loose out on if your consumed with being jealous.  Jealously is a definite deal breaker.

His Talk

Don't be a fool, whether it's yours or theirs, jealously is a killer. If you are the jealous one,  you have trust issues. No one wants to be untrusted nor do they want to be under continious investigation. Your jealousy will absolutely choke the life out of your partner.  If your partner is the jealous one, they'll be nothing you can do to fix the problem.  Apeasing your partner is not the answer, as it only takes extra effort from you and only temporarily pacifies them. If your not perceptive enough to realize what jealously is doing to your relationship,  then expect your relationship to turn to crap. 

Manscaping.....A must for women???????????

Her Talk

I am a firm believer in manscaping. What woman wants an unkept guy. Oral sex is a great thing, however if your man isn't trimmed up, I personally have no interest in doing the deed. Men love oral sex and often wonder why women don't like giving it? We want you groomed all over, including your manhood area. If you want us to be frisky with you down there, manscape yourself. Where have you been living in a cave???? Really, get with the program.

His Talk


Manscaping......What the hell, when was someone going to tell me about this one? I've been stumbling through the dating scene in total darkness on this issue. Thanks for the tip, while I thought nothing was wrong, I must have scared a few ladies half to death with my grizzly Adams look alike kit. First let me apologize for my apparent lack of knowledge and attention to detail. I assure you that attention needs to be paid in regards to this issue. Nothing maybe more of a turn off to your partner than for them to discover that you've hidden the beans and franks deep beneath the wool of the musk oxs. Clean it up guys........!!!!!!!!!

Communication or Beating around the Bush?

Her Talk



Why do guys have such an issue telling us their feelings? We women thrive on communication. We need to be told how we look and how much we are loved. We also like to feel needed and wanted. Instead guys hem and ha about their feelings. We do not understand grunts and shrugs. We need clear precise details. I loathe trying to decipher a man's feelings. Why can't you all just come out with it. You get mad about one thing but say it's all about another issue. We do not get it, please speak the same language we women do. Why is this such a problem. Instead of hiding from your feelings, admit them and enjoy life. Stop delaying the inevitable, move on to something more important like a normal loving, honest and sensual relationship.

His Talk


It's all about this, do not go to Wendy's and order a burger and leave the rest to them, you will be disappointed. Your partner should not have to read your mind. No matter the subject, get to the point, make your mind up and say what your thinking. A little tact is always good. You've got to speak your mind. There maybe some backlash but a direct approach is always best. If this brings you under continious fire, then you maybe trying to place a square peg in a round hole. Meaning this may not be the right person for you. Communication skills are paramount but so is the ablility to comprehend. Communication skills take years to cultivate so recognize that your style may not be the best or may not work for your partner.
Realize you may need to try a different approach. Nevertheless, just get it done.

Lingerie? Or NAKED?????????

Her Talk


What do men like, women in Lingerie or naked sex? I can take it either way. Sometimes its fun to role play and wear naughty stuff. Other times its great to rip off each others clothes and just have at it. I think the more you get to know each other, the more comfortable you are with your sexuality. I personally think it takes a combination of both to keep things spiced up. I personally do not want to see a man dressed up in any kind of lingerie. I had a dream the other night that I was Helen of Troy and I had a HOT, HOT, trojan warrior in my bed. That's the kind of spicy stuff I like.

His Talk


Lingerie, Lingerie, Lingerie
Yep, gotta have it, I love how it accentuates the curves, adds color and mystery. I am sure there are some women that need embelishments and others that need some nips and tucks. The reasons for wearing are many and the results are almost always exciting and ends up in great sex. It's not too often the use of lingerie would turn me off. Maybe if the lingerie turns you off, you need to put the farm animal back in the barn. Lingerie requires planning and preparation. Naked sex is great as it is usually spontanious and unbridled and that moment needs not to be lost. Damn the lingerie, let's get it on. I agree with you. A combination of both lingerie and hot naked sex are needed to keep the fire burning.

You act like your not jealous.............why do you get so mad???????

Men always want to pretend their not jealous when deep down we girls know you are. You want us to look good, but you don't want anyone else to look at us. Explain this to me. We like looking good, we like feeling sexy, and we like being in control of our sexuality. Why is it, you men get so jealous when other men look at us? Also, just because I might flirt, doesn't mean that I am interested in anyone else, it just means I am feeling good about me. However, on the other hand, I don't mind if my guy looks at other women as long as he doesn't touch, get a phone number, or make me feel less than awesome. I am secure enough with myself to know what makes my guy happy at home.


I agree that lot of men are jealous but so are a lot of women. Jealousy is a problem within the individual and is usually a result of some sort of insecurity. Why do you not want people to admire the one you are with? Why not take pride in looking good and in the fact that your wife or date might be incredibly attractive and twice as good looking as you do ? Dont let it bother you ! Damn ! Theres nothing like flying first class when all you have is a coach pass or if you didnt grasp that analogy then try this one, an ounce of image is worth a pound of performance!

SIX INCH STILETTOS AND NAKED? IS THIS WHAT MEN LIKE?

SIX INCH STILETTOS AND NAKED? IS THIS WHAT MEN LIKE?
So your out with your guy, your dressed up with 6" Stilettos, you look and feel very sexy. You see him loving the look. When you get home that night, you undress ready for sex, do you keep on the heels or not? I prefer to keep them on as nothing is sexier than a pair of super high heels. Do you hear me girls? Of course you know heels make your

HER TALK, HIS TALK: SIX INCH STILETTOS AND NAKED? IS THIS WHAT MEN LI...

HER TALK, HIS TALK: SIX INCH STILETTOS AND NAKED? IS THIS WHAT MEN LI...: So your out with your guy, your dressed up with 6" Stilettos, you look and feel very sexy. You see him loving the look. When you get home th...

SIX INCH STILETTOS AND NAKED? IS THIS WHAT MEN LIKE?

So your out with your guy, your dressed up with 6" Stilettos, you look and feel very sexy. You see him loving the look. When you get home that night, you undress ready for sex, do you keep on the heels or not? I prefer to keep them on as nothing is sexier than a pair of super high heels. Do you hear me girls? Of course you know heels make your legs look longer and thinner, however, there is something about feeling taller and in control. I wonder what men think, would they prefer stilettos over say a nightie? Just the thought of super high heels and nakedness is very appealing to most men I would think. Guys what do you think?

YOU MIGHT BE A BILLIONAIRE AND I MIGHT DATE YOU IF.................

You stop trying to buy me

You lose the Gucci loafers

You stop trying to hit on waitresses when we're out to dinner

You stop meddling in my friendships

You stop looking in the mirror every 5 minutes

You break up with all 7 girls you have in different Countries

You stop trying to buy my affection

You stop overdosing on Viagra trying to keep up with all the women your juggling

You stop climbing in my bedroom window late at night when I turn you down

You stop asking me out everyday

You grow up

You lose the mustache, its so not you

You start spending time with your kids

You stop trying to control me

You stop emailing my friends to find out information about me

You stop thinking your the best looking guy I've ever laid eyes on, YOUR NOT

HER TALK, HIS TALK: WHY DO YOU DO THAT, IT TOTALLY ANNOYS ME

HER TALK, HIS TALK: WHY DO YOU DO THAT, IT TOTALLY ANNOYS ME: 02 Sep 4 2011 Why do you do that, it totally annoys me!!! I love to text, it saves me time, energy and I can hide my true mood at the tim...

WHY DO YOU DO THAT, IT TOTALLY ANNOYS ME

02
Sep 4 2011
Why do you do that, it totally annoys me!!!
I love to text, it saves me time, energy and I can hide my true mood at the time. Texting is a way of communicating when I really don’t want to talk to you. I can text in 5 seconds and be done and I don’t have to text back unless I want to. If I am talking to you on the phone, you can drag the conversation on and on and on. Talking on the phone is okay sometimes but not always. I often get tired of hearing the same old thing over and over. When we text, you get the point across and your done. I like to express myself in a matter that’s comfortable to me. If I don’t feel like talking, you should understand and allow me to be the way I want to be. I give you more than enough of my attention so if I’m out on a date or otherwise occupied, you should allow me to text you back and not have to pick up the phone. Just because I like to text, doesn’t mean that your not important to me.

HE SAID:

Your texting totally sucks. Your words are frequently misspelled and you are usually one or two text behind which causes me intense pain as I have to go back and explain my response, thus compounded the amount of text required for a simple conversation. Your mood is totally obvious as I know your avoiding confrontation or coping out on the main issue. Not to mention that I just cruised blindly through a State highway construction site. I am sure there are casualties. All of this could be avoided if you’d just answer the damn phone.