Her Talk
Why do guys have such an issue telling us their feelings? We women thrive on communication. We need to be told how we look and how much we are loved. We also like to feel needed and wanted. Instead guys hem and ha about their feelings. We do not understand grunts and shrugs. We need clear precise details. I loathe trying to decipher a man's feelings. Why can't you all just come out with it. You get mad about one thing but say it's all about another issue. We do not get it, please speak the same language we women do. Why is this such a problem. Instead of hiding from your feelings, admit them and enjoy life. Stop delaying the inevitable, move on to something more important like a normal loving, honest and sensual relationship.
His Talk
It's all about this, do not go to Wendy's and order a burger and leave the rest to them, you will be disappointed. Your partner should not have to read your mind. No matter the subject, get to the point, make your mind up and say what your thinking. A little tact is always good. You've got to speak your mind. There maybe some backlash but a direct approach is always best. If this brings you under continious fire, then you maybe trying to place a square peg in a round hole. Meaning this may not be the right person for you. Communication skills are paramount but so is the ablility to comprehend. Communication skills take years to cultivate so recognize that your style may not be the best or may not work for your partner.
Realize you may need to try a different approach. Nevertheless, just get it done.
Go Daddy
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Lingerie? Or NAKED?????????
Her Talk
What do men like, women in Lingerie or naked sex? I can take it either way. Sometimes its fun to role play and wear naughty stuff. Other times its great to rip off each others clothes and just have at it. I think the more you get to know each other, the more comfortable you are with your sexuality. I personally think it takes a combination of both to keep things spiced up. I personally do not want to see a man dressed up in any kind of lingerie. I had a dream the other night that I was Helen of Troy and I had a HOT, HOT, trojan warrior in my bed. That's the kind of spicy stuff I like.
His Talk
Lingerie, Lingerie, Lingerie
Yep, gotta have it, I love how it accentuates the curves, adds color and mystery. I am sure there are some women that need embelishments and others that need some nips and tucks. The reasons for wearing are many and the results are almost always exciting and ends up in great sex. It's not too often the use of lingerie would turn me off. Maybe if the lingerie turns you off, you need to put the farm animal back in the barn. Lingerie requires planning and preparation. Naked sex is great as it is usually spontanious and unbridled and that moment needs not to be lost. Damn the lingerie, let's get it on. I agree with you. A combination of both lingerie and hot naked sex are needed to keep the fire burning.
What do men like, women in Lingerie or naked sex? I can take it either way. Sometimes its fun to role play and wear naughty stuff. Other times its great to rip off each others clothes and just have at it. I think the more you get to know each other, the more comfortable you are with your sexuality. I personally think it takes a combination of both to keep things spiced up. I personally do not want to see a man dressed up in any kind of lingerie. I had a dream the other night that I was Helen of Troy and I had a HOT, HOT, trojan warrior in my bed. That's the kind of spicy stuff I like.
His Talk
Lingerie, Lingerie, Lingerie
Yep, gotta have it, I love how it accentuates the curves, adds color and mystery. I am sure there are some women that need embelishments and others that need some nips and tucks. The reasons for wearing are many and the results are almost always exciting and ends up in great sex. It's not too often the use of lingerie would turn me off. Maybe if the lingerie turns you off, you need to put the farm animal back in the barn. Lingerie requires planning and preparation. Naked sex is great as it is usually spontanious and unbridled and that moment needs not to be lost. Damn the lingerie, let's get it on. I agree with you. A combination of both lingerie and hot naked sex are needed to keep the fire burning.
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
You act like your not jealous.............why do you get so mad???????
Men always want to pretend their not jealous when deep down we girls know you are. You want us to look good, but you don't want anyone else to look at us. Explain this to me. We like looking good, we like feeling sexy, and we like being in control of our sexuality. Why is it, you men get so jealous when other men look at us? Also, just because I might flirt, doesn't mean that I am interested in anyone else, it just means I am feeling good about me. However, on the other hand, I don't mind if my guy looks at other women as long as he doesn't touch, get a phone number, or make me feel less than awesome. I am secure enough with myself to know what makes my guy happy at home.
I agree that lot of men are jealous but so are a lot of women. Jealousy is a problem within the individual and is usually a result of some sort of insecurity. Why do you not want people to admire the one you are with? Why not take pride in looking good and in the fact that your wife or date might be incredibly attractive and twice as good looking as you do ? Dont let it bother you ! Damn ! Theres nothing like flying first class when all you have is a coach pass or if you didnt grasp that analogy then try this one, an ounce of image is worth a pound of performance!
I agree that lot of men are jealous but so are a lot of women. Jealousy is a problem within the individual and is usually a result of some sort of insecurity. Why do you not want people to admire the one you are with? Why not take pride in looking good and in the fact that your wife or date might be incredibly attractive and twice as good looking as you do ? Dont let it bother you ! Damn ! Theres nothing like flying first class when all you have is a coach pass or if you didnt grasp that analogy then try this one, an ounce of image is worth a pound of performance!
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