Her Talk
Why do guys have such an issue telling us their feelings? We women thrive on communication. We need to be told how we look and how much we are loved. We also like to feel needed and wanted. Instead guys hem and ha about their feelings. We do not understand grunts and shrugs. We need clear precise details. I loathe trying to decipher a man's feelings. Why can't you all just come out with it. You get mad about one thing but say it's all about another issue. We do not get it, please speak the same language we women do. Why is this such a problem. Instead of hiding from your feelings, admit them and enjoy life. Stop delaying the inevitable, move on to something more important like a normal loving, honest and sensual relationship.
His Talk
It's all about this, do not go to Wendy's and order a burger and leave the rest to them, you will be disappointed. Your partner should not have to read your mind. No matter the subject, get to the point, make your mind up and say what your thinking. A little tact is always good. You've got to speak your mind. There maybe some backlash but a direct approach is always best. If this brings you under continious fire, then you maybe trying to place a square peg in a round hole. Meaning this may not be the right person for you. Communication skills are paramount but so is the ablility to comprehend. Communication skills take years to cultivate so recognize that your style may not be the best or may not work for your partner.
Realize you may need to try a different approach. Nevertheless, just get it done.
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