JAILBAIT OR SENIOR CITIZEN?????............HOW LOW WILL YOU GO???

Her Talk

I have different views on this topic.  I was married to someone that was 20 years older than me.  I didn't know we were so far apart in age until we were married.  He had lied to me about his age.  We could not relate on any issues as he was more like my parents and lived in a different generational time.  We didn't see eye to eye.  He was worried about his vitamin intake and how much fiber he was getting.  I was more concerned with when I was going to have an orgasm.  If I am ever in another serious relationship,  it would be with someone within 5 years of my age. I would however entertain the idea of dating a younger man for a bit just to be more sexually compatible. I mean come on what girl doesn't want to spend a weekend with a guy who has the same sexual libido? 

His Talk

Age difference, don't you know what you are getting into? When you're 65 and you get up and go has got up and went, then what?  She's 45 and ready to go dancing and your having a can of ensure and looking for your best pair of bass shoes then what?  She's 45 and built like a brick house and her tutti is throbbing and you're 65 and your prostate is bigger than your pecker and you can barely feel it tingle, then what? 
You better pray that chemistry is there, both relationship chemistry and a bucket of viagra chemistry.Your interest, hobbies, likes and dislikes and your overall outlook on life are going to be the things that come back to choke out this relationship.  For me, I would like the sun go down together rather than watch her drive into the sunset in the car that I paid for by sitting in the nursing home that she paid for.

HER TALK, HIS TALK: WHEN DO YOU WALK AWAY FROM A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP???...

HER TALK, HIS TALK: WHEN DO YOU WALK AWAY FROM A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP???...: Her Talk I might walk away from a toxic relationship if: I might walk away if ....................He spends more time with everyone bu...

WHEN DO YOU WALK AWAY FROM A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP??????????

Her Talk


I might walk away from a toxic relationship if:


I might walk away if ....................He spends more time with everyone but me.

I might walk away if.....................He's always complaining about lack of sex without trying to turn me on.

I might walk away if ....................He is always on the phone and computer talking to other people.

I might walk away if ....................He forgets my birthday, anniversary or any major holidays.

I might walk away if ....................He never initiates date night.

I might walk away if.....................He would prefer to ALWAYS be with the boys.
                                                   I don't care if your spending time with the guys, just allow
                                                   enough time for us to be together.

I might walk away if ....................He doesn't allow me to have a girls weekend occasionally.
                                                   If I can't go to the beach for a weekend, I am not interested.

I might walk away if.....................He is always talking bad about me behind my back.
                                                    Save the drama for your mama.


I might walk away if ....................He always gets satisfied but leaves me lacking. Come on, we girls
                                                    need ours too.

I might walk away if ....................He thinks he is the best looking one in the relationship.

I might walk away if ....................He cannot admit to his friends that he is crazy about me.

I might walk away if.....................He Cheats!!!!

I  might walk away if....................He lies to me.

I might walk away if ....................He is all drama and no substance.







His Talk


Well that depends on a whole slew of things. I am usually in tune with what's going on around me and I'm gonna notice the subtle changes in her behavior. If your partner has a whole list of excuses not to do something with you, stays on the phone or computer when it's normally time spent with each other or the lack of sex becomes epidemic, there maybe a problem. Me, I am not one to drag things out.  If she is no longer burning for me, I'm gonna wanna talk about it. If you come home from a tractor pull and you see your buddies El Camino parked in front of your trailer and  you catch him having lunch between her legs, this might be a problem.  For a man that's a little slow, surely this might be a sign to move on. For myself I'm gonna walk when I see there is a clear lack of commitment to my relationship.   When It's time to leave just put the wheels back on your house and relocate to the nearest most affordable trailer park.

How many sexual partners are acceptable????

Her Talk:

I don't even know how to answer this one.  I guess I do not want to know however, I do not want to be with someone that has been with everybody.  I do not want to walk down the street and see a girl on every corner that has had sex with my man.  I would freak out if it was in the hundreds because for me, it's been significantly less.

His Talk:

I guess what you don't know can hurt you cause if she has the crabs and you don't know, they are definitely going to hurt you.  Pouring ammonia on em won't kill em either. They will just get up and relocate which will only cause even more discomfort and you will be heard screaming three states away. So, I don't know how many are acceptable,  I do know I don't wanna know.

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Define Chemistry??? That's an easy one!!!!!!!!!

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Define Chemistry??? That's an easy one!!!!!!!!!: Her Talk: Chemistry to me is passion. If you can't keep your eyes of your guy, and he feels the same way, that is chemistry. If your ki...

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Define Chemistry??? That's an easy one!!!!!!!!!

HER TALK, HIS TALK: Define Chemistry??? That's an easy one!!!!!!!!!: Her Talk: Chemistry to me is passion. If you can't keep your eyes of your guy, and he feels the same way, that is chemistry. If your ki...

Define Chemistry??? That's an easy one!!!!!!!!!

Her Talk:


Chemistry to me is passion.  If you can't keep your eyes of your guy, and he feels the same way, that is chemistry.  If your kissing make you feel gooey on the inside,  that is chemistry. You just know when you have it.  You want to jump your guys bones at every opportunity when you experience it.  Chemistry is so important in a relationship, I believe it is in the top three things needed for a successful partnership.
Without chemistry, you have no chance of a loving and sexual relationship.


His Talk:

I could only speculate what another man's idea of chemistry is.  I'm sure it is different for everyone. A man with no spine would probably like an overbearing brutal character that he has to follow through Walmart while shopping. I like a peaceful co-existence and the ability to be myself, without the fear of being beheaded every time I fart or masturbate while watching Monster Bucks. Chemistry is generated by mutual admiration for each other as well as an acceptance of each other's idiosyncrasies and unappealing personal habits. Chemistry is a blending of the elements, colors, styles and systems of two different people with a common interest which is each other.