JEALOUSLY.....A SNAKE BITE TO THE RELATIONSHIP??????

Her Talk,

I try really hard not to be jealous even though the green eyed  monster sneaks out occasionally.  I feel pretty secure with myself and can often walk away from being angry about those kind of situations.  There is nothing worse than your significant other spying on you and following you around because they are gripped with intense trust issues.  I believe adult relationships should try to focus on building a firm foundation that nips the green eyed monster in the bud.  I want to trust in my partner and not have to worry at all about his being with someone else. I think you should both nuture the relationship so you each feel secure, loved and appreciated.  If your partner is honest with you and never lies, you should not have issues trusting that person.  Jealously and trust go hand in hand.  Without trust, you get nothing but pure jealously.  I would rather focus my attention on taking care of my man rather than worrying about other women.   Look how much intimacy you could loose out on if your consumed with being jealous.  Jealously is a definite deal breaker.

His Talk

Don't be a fool, whether it's yours or theirs, jealously is a killer. If you are the jealous one,  you have trust issues. No one wants to be untrusted nor do they want to be under continious investigation. Your jealousy will absolutely choke the life out of your partner.  If your partner is the jealous one, they'll be nothing you can do to fix the problem.  Apeasing your partner is not the answer, as it only takes extra effort from you and only temporarily pacifies them. If your not perceptive enough to realize what jealously is doing to your relationship,  then expect your relationship to turn to crap.