Her Talk
I think trust is one of the biggest characteristics of a healthy relationship. So I would say okay that would be fine with me. I like having my girl time so why shouldn't my significant other? I would want to hear all about the party and would also like to see the photos that accompany him home. I would certainly encourage the trip. However, if I ever heard that something happened that wasn't kosher with me, I would re-evaluate the honesty in our committed relationship. I mean come on, If I hear my guy was stuffing more than one dollar bills in a strippers G-string, I would be pissed. Or if I heard he was getting a little too close to the waitress at a hot club, I'd break off the relationship immediately. I want my guy to feel like he has freedom to live a life that is both with me and also time away with his buddies. How he behaves on these outings determine how long or if the relationship will remain intact. Me and my girlfriends love going to Vegas occasionally to kick it. I behave so why would I think my guy would do anything less?
His Talk
Well that sure would depend on what kind of relationship we have and what the past for us was. In my income bracket, that request or statement about a weekend in Vegas would be met with a strong, "Are you crazy, Hell no", followed by "what would make you ask me that question"? I would immediately have to reassess our relationship and what was going on, since we have no history of those kind of weekends. If I were in the "go anywhere anytime" income bracket and we had a past where out of town partying was not a rarity, I guess the decision would come down to trust. Do we have it, and can our relationship withstand this type of weekend. This is all about the strength of your relationship and the trust that you and your partner have. So I'd like to think my reply would be "yes, have a great weekend" but that would depend a lot on what type of relationship we have. In the perfect relationship world, a weekend in Vegas should not be an issue, In the PERFECT RELATIONSHIP WORLD.
I think trust is one of the biggest characteristics of a healthy relationship. So I would say okay that would be fine with me. I like having my girl time so why shouldn't my significant other? I would want to hear all about the party and would also like to see the photos that accompany him home. I would certainly encourage the trip. However, if I ever heard that something happened that wasn't kosher with me, I would re-evaluate the honesty in our committed relationship. I mean come on, If I hear my guy was stuffing more than one dollar bills in a strippers G-string, I would be pissed. Or if I heard he was getting a little too close to the waitress at a hot club, I'd break off the relationship immediately. I want my guy to feel like he has freedom to live a life that is both with me and also time away with his buddies. How he behaves on these outings determine how long or if the relationship will remain intact. Me and my girlfriends love going to Vegas occasionally to kick it. I behave so why would I think my guy would do anything less?
His Talk
Well that sure would depend on what kind of relationship we have and what the past for us was. In my income bracket, that request or statement about a weekend in Vegas would be met with a strong, "Are you crazy, Hell no", followed by "what would make you ask me that question"? I would immediately have to reassess our relationship and what was going on, since we have no history of those kind of weekends. If I were in the "go anywhere anytime" income bracket and we had a past where out of town partying was not a rarity, I guess the decision would come down to trust. Do we have it, and can our relationship withstand this type of weekend. This is all about the strength of your relationship and the trust that you and your partner have. So I'd like to think my reply would be "yes, have a great weekend" but that would depend a lot on what type of relationship we have. In the perfect relationship world, a weekend in Vegas should not be an issue, In the PERFECT RELATIONSHIP WORLD.
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